Monday, April 28, 2014

Rethink Your Stereotypes

            There were four of us.  Emily, Grace, Zoe, and I.  We were the select few chosen to go on this “once in a lifetime” experience.  I had never met them before we left, and I really didn't know what to expect.  I certainly wasn't expecting them.  We were all so different, I couldn't imagine spending the next two weeks with them.
            We met in Thunder Bay, Minnesota.  I was the last one to arrive, which kind of concerned me, I figured that everyone else would have done some bonding in the airport.  But, when I got there I saw three fourteen year old girls sitting in a row, with one seat in between each of them, not talking to each other.
            All of the sudden a small blond lady bounded over to me, a huge grin plastered on her face.  
            “Hi, my name’s Sarah!  You must be Amy, everyone else is already here.  I’m your trip leader!  I think we’re going to have a great time these next few weeks!  Do you have all of your stuff?” I managed to nod my head between her rapid questions, “That’s great!  So now that we’re all here and ready we can head off!”
            We spent the hour drive in complete silence, with the exception of Sarah who was asking more questions than any of us could hope to answer.
            Suddenly, Zoe said from the back, “I think I see the sign to the campgrounds,”  And that was the sentence that dissolved all the barriers between us.  Everyone erupted into chatter.
            The rest of that day and the entire next one were spent getting equipment together, adjusting the bags, packing and repacking our gear until everything was just right.  Everything had to be perfect before we set off.  During this time I learned a lot about the other girls.  
            There was Grace, with extremely dark brown, not quite black hair, who didn't seem that happy to be here, although she didn’t really seem that excited about anything.  She was shorter than me, but still taller than Sarah.  She had those glasses that made you seem smart, although I kind of got the understanding that she was the kind of person to wear them just because she liked how they looked.  
            Then there was Zoe, she was the one that kept us all laughing with her dry sense of humor.  She was one of those people that would make fun of themselves just to keep everyone else entertained.  She was the most prepared out of any of us, wearing her hair in two tight french braids.  
            There was Emily, who had already hurt herself two times within the thirty-six hours we were at the campsite, and both times were just because she tripped over her own feet.  She told us all about her fear of bones, which Zoe immediately pointed out as being ironic, seeing as how she’s the most likely to break one.  
           We seemed to get along really well during those two days, but I knew that sitting around a campfire was a very different situation compared to backpacking across an island in the middle of Lake Superior.
            The third day rolled around and we were all woken up at the crack of dawn by Sarah.  “Girls!  Breakfast!  Hurry up!  We can’t miss the ferry!”
            We had a quick breakfast, packed up our stuff, threw it in the van, and drove off.
            The ride over was quiet, almost like the first day again.  I think that the realization of what we were about to do finally sank in.  Thirty miles in only four travel days.  I mean sure, we would spend a day at a campsite in between every hiking day and just relax, but still, that was a lot of walking.
            When we finally arrived at the harbor after a twenty minute drive that felt well over an hour, we couldn't see anything.  The amount of fog was ridiculous.  We stepped out of the van and immediately couldn't find each other.


            A voice floated out of the fog ahead of me, “This way!”  It was Sarah, who had somehow managed to find her way around.  We grabbed our bags and blindly made our way after her.
            My bag felt like it weighed as much as me, but I tend to over-exaggerate, so in reality it was probably only fifty pounds.  I had my sleeping bag in a plastic bag that was tied to the bottom, my camera was clipped to the back for easy-access, and I was carrying a fourth of the tent and food.


            We got closer to the water and the fog started to thin out a little.  The outline of the ferry slowly came into view.  At first it looked like it was a really nice, new boat.  But then the fog cleared some more and all of our hearts sunk.
            The boat looked like it was at least thirty years old, the hull was rusted and from what I could see the navigational equipment was ancient.  It had it’s name, The Voyager II, painted on the its side in chipped black paint.  I wondered what happened to the first one.
            There were two crew members on board helping people get their gear on the boat.  Standing in front of us there was a troop of boy scouts waiting to get on the boat as well, they looked to be about our age.  They threw their bags up to the guys who packed them in the cargo hold.  We overheard the conversation their troop leader was having with one of the guys packing their stuff.
            “So how long are you guys going out for?” asked the crewman.
            “We’ll be out there for five days and four nights,” the troop leader replied.
            “Your bags are pretty heavy, that’s a lot of weight to be dragging around,”
            “Eh, they can handle it, it’s only about thirty-five pounds per bag,”
            With that Sarah started cracking up.  She was still giggling as we stepped onto the loading dock.  The guy stepped over to help us get our gear on board.
            “You ladies look like you need some help with that,” the guy said.
            Sarah started giggling even harder, “Actually, we’re handling it just fine,” she told him.
            “How much weight do you have in those, twenty pounds each?” he asked.
            At this point Sarah was laughing so hard she could barely respond, “Try more like fifty-five in each of the girls’, and about seventy in mine,”
            He looked a little flustered at this point and tried to regain some of his dignity by saying, “I take it you’re only camping out in the area surrounding the landing dock, there’s no way you could go very far with those bags,”
            Sarah was now in hysterics, “We’re taking the thirty mile loop.  And you might want to rethink some of your stereotypes,”  And with that she tossed her bag to the guy who staggered under its weight as he tried to catch it.  The rest of us silently passed our bags up to him as well, glaring at him the whole time.
            The inside of the boat was no nicer than the outside.  There were rows of benches that had no back to them, so you were forced to sit up the entire two hour ride.
            I was lucky that I didn't get motion-sick, but Grace on the other hand, was drugged with so much Dramamine that she pretty much passed out, taking up an entire bench, the second we sat down.
            It was a good thing she had taken something before we got on the boat, the captain said that the ride was normally pretty rough, but it was especially bad that day.  So we sat there, being thrown side-to-side, in complete silence because no one else on the boat was talking.  Even Sarah was quiet, but you could still see the victorious smirk on her face from her confrontation with the deckhand.
            As we rode we you could actually see the fog rising, it looked like it was being summoned back into the clouds.  Thankfully it was completely gone by the time we reached the first of the islands.
            We passed by island after island, each one covered completely by trees.  They were so green that it was almost like someone had painted them.  The four of us, Grace was still fast asleep, ran to the open deck on the front of the boat.  As we were heading out, Emily knocked into one of the benches and came extremely close to ending up in some guy’s lap.  She somehow managed to right herself before joining the rest of us at the bow.



            The boy scout troop was out there as well, all wearing matching uniforms, and staring ahead very seriously.  Their troop leader was trying to yell out various informative facts about the islands over the wind, but no one seemed to be paying him much attention.
            As we continued through the islands the sun began to come out a little more.  This led to the colors becoming even more vibrant.
            “Are you girls excited to start our adventure?” asked Sarah.
            “Yes!  I can’t wait to see the island up close,” replied Emily.
            “I’m sure it looks great from here, but the second we take one step inside that forest I’m positive we’re going to hate it,” said Zoe.
            “What could possibly be so bad about the forest?” I asked.
            “You’re probably thinking about the cute little bunnies and squirrels hopping around in there, but I’m thinking about the wolves!” she replied.
            The boys group had overheard us, and the troop leader had decided he was going to show off his knowledge of the area.  “Well boys, contrary to what these ladies think, the chances we’re going to see a wolf on this outing are very slim.  At the last count there were thought to only be eight wolves on the entire island.  If anything, we need to be more concerned about the nine hundred and seventy-five moose roaming around,”  He looked over at us with this proud look on his face, as if to say, “Ha, we know more than you!”
            I think we were all expecting Sarah to say something, but she just turned back to us and continued talking about the view.


            The boat finally arrived in the Windigo docks.  We woke Grace up, who was  grumpier than usual after being knocked out for two hours, and headed off the boat.  Sarah shot one last victorious look at the deckhand before we walked off.
            That night we camped out a quarter of a mile down the trail.  We saw the boys group pass by our campsite, and when they saw us already setting up our tents they started laughing while pointing at us and talking in hushed voices.
            Grace, who had been too drugged to remember what had happened with them on the boat turned to us and asked, “What’s their problem?”
            “Oh, they think that they’re ‘manly men’ and we’re just ‘silly little girls’,” replied Zoe.
            “I see,”
            Sarah decided to chime in, “Don’t worry about it ladies, boys will always think that they're more capable than girls.  Eventually you'll just learn to tune it out,”
            “I just wish we could find some way to show them up,” said Emily.
            “Their karma will catch up to them,” stated Zoe.
            We all dissolved in to laughter, “You don’t actually believe in karma, do you?” I asked.
            “I’m telling you!  It’s real!” protested Zoe.
            And with that we slowly forgot about the sexist group of guys that were somewhere ahead of us down the trail.  We were just focused on how perfect life was around our little campsite.  We had laughter and good food, and couldn't possibly ask for anything more.
            The next morning we set off down the trail again on our first real hiking day.  The trail was uneven and we ended up having to escort Emily down some of the rougher areas.  Even though we were walking slow, it gave us time to admire the wildflowers growing around the path.



            At the four mile mark we stopped to have lunch, but our break was short lived, because soon after we had finished eating Sarah was hauling us to our feet and we set back off down the trail for another three more miles.
            After we had traveled another two and a half miles we heard voices up ahead.  As we kept going we started to see figures farther down on the trail.  It was the boy scout troop, and from what we could hear it sounded as if they were arguing.
            When we got closer we could see and hear them more clearly.  They looked exhausted, sweat drenching the heavy fabric their official looking uniforms were made out of.  And it turns out they weren’t arguing, they were complaining about how tired they were.
            As we passed them on the trail our bags felt twenty pounds lighter, and we all stood up a little taller, just to show them that, yeah, we are girls, and we can do this.  They stared at us as we walked by, half of them in admiration, and the other half in disdain.
            When we were about a hundred feet past them Sarah turned around and yelled back at them, “You really might want to rethink your stereotypes!”  And we walked off without another look back.
            The rest of our trip passed without ever seeing them again, we assumed that at some point they must have turned around.  And there were times when we didn't feel like we could walk another step, but we just had to remind ourselves of the feeling we got when we passed the boys, and we all found that we had it in us to keep moving our feet.

Monday, April 21, 2014

The Littlest Hitler

I really like the development this story goes through.  At first it was slightly whimsical, just about a kid who got himself in a really bad situation.  As the story continued, you got an understanding of his home situation.

His mother left his father, and it doesn't seem like she really cares about her son.  You only hear him talking about his father.  His father seems a little checked out, he has three ovens in their "living room".  The boy says he doesn't like having friends over because of the stoves.  The father doesn't really understand whats appropriate for a kid to be exposed to.  He shows his 9 year old son how to roll a joint.  That's just terrible parenting.

One part that really stood out to me was at the end when the stoves are being compared to one another. One of the stoves is dead, one has embers in it, and the other one has a fire going.  I think this symbolizes the amount of guilt the boy is feeling.  In the beginning he just thinks that he's being a really scary guy for Halloween.  Then, when people start making fun of him, he starts to realize that dressing as Hitler wasn't a good idea.  And then, when he sees the Jewish kids that couldn't go trick-or-treating, he starts to feel really guilty.

One moment of my childhood that kind of reminds me of this story is when I was separated from my family in a mall when I was around two or three.  We were walking through all of the shops that had these huge signs on them, and lots of interesting things in the hallway, and I must have gotten distracted.  I ended up wandering away from the rest of the group after I had seen something I really liked.  I don't remember ever feeling panicked, or even realizing that I had gotten lost.  Eventually my family found me in the Hello Kitty store that had a person dressed in costume.  I had apparently been hugging the dressed up person for at least fifteen minutes.

My parents really love to talk about this story all of the time, and whenever they bring it up I kind of cringe.  I mean, I caused everyone fifteen minutes of complete panic because I got distracted by a giant Hello Kitty.  The worst part of it all is that I never even really liked Hello Kitty, I just really liked giant mascots because they reminded me of Disney World.

Sunday, April 20, 2014

A Good Man is Hard to Find

I was pretty confused throughout most of this story.  I found it a little hard to follow at some points.  I think this may have to do with the style the dialogue was written in.  It seemed like the characters were written with an accent.
  
That being said, I really liked the story.  I think it points out a lot of flaws that are common in older ways of thinking.  The grandmother was telling The Misfit that she believed that he came from a good family, so therefore he must be good.  This isn't the case, and we discover that the grandmother saying this was completely ironic, because she was his mother.

The grandmother also told The Misfit to pray to Jesus because that would somehow make him a good person.  I don't think that religion has the power to all of the sudden stop someone from brutally murdering innocent people.  I think that once a person is at the point of holding a gun to their own family not much can change them.

I think that the title plays in to the story because the grandmother kept repeating that she believed The Misfit was a good man.  And in the end he ended up killing six people.  The title kind of talks about how the grandmother has this list of standards that "good men" must fulfill.  And she keeps saying that The Misfit fits almost all of the categories.  Then in the end he kills her so it kind of goes to show that her list is irrelevant.

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Where Are You Going? Where Have You Been?

I thought this story by Joyce Carol Oates was really interesting.  I thought the concept was unusual, a girl leaving her house to go with the "bad guys".  I would think that the logical thing to do would be to stay inside.  I think things in this story really started to go wrong when Connie didn't immediately ignore the guys that came to her door.  If she just stayed quiet in the house, where they couldn't see her they might have left.

I thought the ending was really good, although I wish you found out what actually happened to Connie.  The story kind of just stops when she walks outside.  You kind of get the idea that she probably ends up dead, but I still would have liked for the author to explain what happened.

I was kind of confused as to why she wouldn't just stay in the house.  She doesn't really like her family, she said she wishes her mom was dead, so the fact that she gave up her life for them didn't make a lot of sense to me.  I think the reason she left is more because of all of the things Arnold is saying he can give her.  She knows that he's not actually going to give them to her but after living in her sister's shadow and having her mother disapprove of her she wants out of her house.  She was described as having a head full of daydreams and listening to music and watching movies that were about love.  She just wants to be away from her family who don't really respect her and with someone who loves her.  So when this guy shows up telling her that he'll love her, she knows that he's trouble and it's not going to end well for her, but still goes with him anyways.

The lyrics of Daydreaming by Paramore really remind me of this story.  http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/paramore/daydreaming.html

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

A & P

I think this story says a lot about how girls are viewed by men.  These girls that walk in to the A & P are immediately identified by weight, which seems to be one of the main ways guys categorize girls.  Then the narrator (Sammy) starts talking about how pretty the leader of the girls is.  He doesn't care that she's breaking the store's policy because she's pleasing to look at.  If the girls that walked in were unappealing he probably would have told them to leave.

It sounded like the girls were relatively young, they were described as kids, so it was pretty creepy to have the older guys checking them out.  It was even more messed up that the girls deliberately walked into the store knowing what kind of attention they were going to get.  It seemed desperate. 

I was really surprised by the ending.  It didn't make sense to me that Sammy would just quit his job over his boss telling some girls he just saw for the first time that the way they were dressed was breaking store policy.  He didn't even see the girls at the end so he kind of just threw away his job for no reason.  

My favorite passage was, "All this while, the customers had been showing up with a cart but, you know, sheep, seeing a scene, they had all bunched up on Stokesie, who shook open a paper bag as gently as peeling a peach, not wanting to miss a word."  I liked it because it described the situation perfectly, the people not knowing how to react so they just avoid, and the guys wanting to see as much of the girls as they could.  It really shows how ridiculous this situation is.  The people are described as sheep, and the simile for opening the bag is peeling a peach, which I wasn't even aware were fruits that you peeled.

A Very Old Man with Enormous Wings

I thought that this story by Gabriel García Márquez was a little strange.  I was confused as to what the man with wings was.  At different points of the story he was described as a different thing.  It ranged from an angel to a trick from the devil.  He was kind of reborn in the end, with his wings growing back in.  I'm interested to know what type of world this was set in, because it doesn't seem like ours.  It describes a man with wings who suddenly is 'reborn' and a girl that has the body of a giant spider.

This story spoke a lot towards human nature.  The family took advantage of this winged man.  They kept him in terrible conditions and profited from him staying on their property.  He was described as a captive that the family got rich from.  I also saw some aspects of human nature in how the Father responded to the situation.  He looked to the people in a higher powered position to give him the answers.  I think that people tend to do that a lot in real life.

The story was also about religion.  I found it interesting how the man with wings was considered divine because he matched the description of an angel, but the woman with the body of a spider was just a carnival attraction.  This man could have been like the woman, but since the wise woman and Father said that he was from heaven the people thought that as well.

By the end of the story I'm still wondering where the story takes place (time, city, 'world'), what the man with wings actually is, and what brought about his miraculous recovery.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

"How to date a brown girl (black girl, white girl, or halfie)"

I think that this story says a lot about how different races are viewed without actually explicitly saying anything about racial divides at all.  It talks about how brown, black, white, and halfie girls all require different tactics to be used while on a date.  I got a general idea of when he was talking about which type of girl, but he rarely referred to them as a color, instead he talked about where they came from.  I found this a little confusing because it was sometimes unclear as to which type of girl he is referring to.  I understood that outsider probably means white or halfie, and that local most likely means brown or black.  I think that this story speaks to race more so than some stories that are strictly about racial divisions.  It's saying that girls of different races all have different standards, and that the lighter their skin color is the higher those standards are.  It's also speaking to how the parents of the girls have different levels of concern.  The parents of the girls that are from out of the neighborhood (lighter skinned) are more concerned with their daughter dating a boy with darker skin.  One of the parts that really stood out to me was when the guy said that if the girl was from the neighborhood you can just take her to a fast food place where as if she's an outsider you should take her to the Mexican restaurant.

The dating advice I would give to someone, however cliched it may be, would be to treat their date with respect, and to be engaged in conversation.  I would tell them to disregard any preconceived ideas of their date that are based off of race, social class or anything of that sort.  I would tell them to remember that they are equal to their date, and that a relationship relies heavily on equality.  Other than that, I would tell them to be themselves and don't forget to smile!

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Happy Endings

I really enjoyed Happy Endings.  I  liked how it points out that cliches are over rated, and in the end the ending doesn’t really matter.  I like how it was broken up into different smaller stories, and how each smaller story ends up back at point A.  I think that the last story that talked about the main idea would have made more sense if it wasn't included as a part F.  I thought of it as more of a conclusion.  I really like the idea that you always come back to point A in some way or another.  I don't agree with the author when she says that the plot of a story is just one thing after another and has no meaning.  I think that without a good plot a story isn't captivating enough to be enjoyable.

If I were to add a part it would be:

John and Mary couldn't stand each other.  They've always hated each other, from the day they started the same shift at work.  They often interrupt the building with the sounds of them screaming at each other.  Mary is sure she has never met anyone as vile as John.  And John is positive that he has never met anyone as horrendous as Mary.


But time passes, as it tends to do, and slowly their screaming fades.  Eventually the building is quiet.  Soon enough John asks Mary on a date and it all continues as in A.

Monday, March 31, 2014

And of Clay We Are Created

I really enjoyed this story.  I think that it had a sense of purpose, it felt important.  The part that stuck with me the most was the last paragraph that was written as the author talking to her husband.  She's saying that she understands that she will never fully understand what he went through.  She's telling him that she will wait until he figures it out and heals.  I think that this is either a very loving thing to say or  completely ignorant.  On the one hand, Isabelle Allende is telling her husband that she supports him and will wait for him through anything and can't wait for the day when they will "again walk hand in hand".  On the other hand she might be waiting her entire life for a man that might not heal.  Rolf Carle went through a traumatic experience that forced him to deal with tragedy as well as deeply buried emotions all within three days.  This is the kind of event that people don't heal easily from.  So while Isabelle is saying that she will love Rolf through anything, she might be foolish to think that he will be able to move past Azucena's death.



Article on bombing in Kenya

http://www.nytimes.com/reuters/2014/03/31/world/africa/31reuters-kenya-blast.html?ref=world

The Story of an Hour

I just read the Story of an Hour, I found this story extremely ironic.  I am curious to know how the story was received because it was written by a woman about how women want to be independent in a time when women were inferior to men.  I really like the contrast between how happy Mrs. Mallard was to hear that she was free to dying of disappointment when she realized she wasn't.  I think that women who read this story in the time period in which it was written would find it some what inspiring, or at least thought provoking.